familys are't worth it sometime!!

{{{hugs}}} I am so sorry you have all this to cope with on top of your grief for your mum. Like Debs says it wouldnt hurt to have your speech there with you just in case.  Or maybe later when you are alone and have some quiet time, go somewhere you can feel close to mum and maybe light her a candle and read your lovely words to her, it will be just you and mum..just my thoughts, I don`t mean to upset you x.

I will be thinking of you tomorrow.

Love scarlet xx

I feel so deeply for you, as if losing your Mum is not bad enough. Please go to the funeral tomorrow, and hold your head up, Emotions are very raw at the moment and people often say and do things without thinking and realising they are not the only ones hurting and grieving.  There is no reason why you can't put your own stamp on the speech you are giving.

My thoughts are with yoiu at this very sad time in your life.

Jo Mac

My siblings left me out of the funeral

arrangement when my Mum died, but i

had a poem i wanted to read, so when

i got to the church i told the vicar i had

a poem i wanted to read and she said

that was ok. So forget just for the day

that you are upset with your siblings and

ask the Deacon if you can read your

tribute to your mum, i cant see there

being a problem. You must go to your

mums funeral, its her day and yours to

show your love and respect, Turn the

other cheek, you wont be sorry.

With Love Lucy Lee. xxx

Hi Missladybird,

I dont know how Debs does it but she is always the voice of reason when it comes to your situation.

You go to your Mums funeral tomorrow and as Debs says bring a copy of your lovely poem with you.

I know Im not in a position to comment but if I was your Mum I know which tribute I would prefer to be read.

Stay together as a family the way your loving Mum would want.

May the lady rest in peace.

My sympathy to you all. Sarsfield.xx