christmas eve

It is so hard and I feel for you. I have been very teary too. This is the first year without my mum and I just want Christmas to be over too. My mum loved it and she was very ill this time last year - we only managed to get her out of hospital for a few day from Christmas eve last year, so it makes it all the harder.  Try to remember some good things if you can and hold onto the fact that your mum would want you to be as happy and to make the most of your life.

Hi Missladybird,

Yes it has been a hard year for you,and living in an empty house without your Mum and Dad,must be heart breaking. But tomorrow instead of being on your own why not invite a few friends around even if its just for a chat. If they are good friends they will be thinking about you,and might invite you round for a chat,Talk about your Mum and Dad and all the good times you used to have at this time of year.

I know its easy for me to say these things when Im not in your position. I only wish I lived near you and we could try and cheer eachother up.

So Pal if its  possible try and wake up with a smile on your face thinking. What would Mum and Dad want me to do today to make them smile.

I hope that this Post in some way Helps to ease the pain, and loneliness.

I send you my Love and strength.

Take Care and Keep Safe.Sarsfield.xx

I know exactly how you feel, it is horrible isn't it? Remind yourself that this is just another day, we think of our mums probably every day, so why pressure ourselves because its Christmas hun?

Take care, do what you like, when you like, and it will soon be over. The harder part is that our lovely mums will still be gone, but I am sure that they are watching over us somewhere and sending us strength to face the future.

Much love & a big hug,

Lou x