Monday July 12th - The good day was short lived!

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After mum doing so well yesterday, today she has become increasingly nauseous.  She is surviving on a couple of slices of bread and a muller rice every day.  She won't drink the fortisip and is extremely fed up.  I feel so helpless and just don't know what to do.

Her blood results showed that her potassium level was a tiny bit low but Christine says not enough for it to be causing any problems.  Everything else was fine.  She spoke to mum this morning and, at the time, mum felt ok but by the time I got in from work she felt really nauseous.  She is also tired but is not sleeping well and her legs feel weak, hardly surpising given how little she's eaten recently.

I phoned Christine when I got in and she said there was nothing to worry about re: the potassium but that she had sent the results to mums GP and that he may decide to give her a potassium supplement.  She said it was 0.3 below what it should be but it was something that fluctuated.  Having read about potassium it seems poor diet can cause this, so again, no surprise there as she is not eating a balanced diet, that's for sure.  Christine said mum had said she felt ok this morning so I clarified that she had felt progressively nauseous as the day had gone on.  She thinks mum would benefit from going back on steroids but said last time she mentioned it mum didn't seem keen.  So she said she would ring the GP tonight and get mum some steroids and would check with Dr Mehta whether mum could take them until we get back from Spain as they normally only like people to take them for two weeks.  She says she doesn't think it'll be a problem.

I feel so sorry for mum.  She's sitting here now and it's obvious she is feeling really sickly.  She keeps rubbing her tummy but when I ask her if it's sore she says it just feels 'yucky'.  She's never actually been sick but says sometimes she feels she might feel better if she was.  She says she's going to get the Doctor in again tomorrow as she can't go on like this.  The trouble is the GP is useless and I don't have any faith in him sorting this out. 

I wonder if the anti sickness meds are no longer working and need changing but I forgot to say that to Christine.  If she could get the nausea under control she would eat and that, in turn, would make her feel stronger.  I've made up my mind to take the day off tomorrow so that I can be here when the Doctor comes as I think sometimes mum just gives him half a story.  Anyway sorry for the rant but today has not been a good day!

PS Mum has metaclopramide for sickness but they no longer seem to work.  Anyone had anything that worked for them? 

Anonymous
  • Hi

    There is an alternative to fortisip that apparently is more palatable, sorry cannot remember the name but I remember reading about it when Gary posted in the bowel cancer forum as his daughter had similar problems and could not take the fortisip.

    Sorry cannot help re anti sickness.

    good luck naff gp's don't make it any easier, is there anyone else who can help? specialist nurse or consultant?

    take care

    john

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Caroline

    Im sorry your Mum feels so unwell. Metroclopramide never worked very well for my sister unless it was in injection form.. i wish i could help but with my sister it was a bit complicated as her tumour in her brain was pressing on the vomit reflex so it was very hard to control her sickness...With your Mum i was wondering if there is some underlying infection...when my Dad was ill he suffered alot from feeling sick and sometimes they would change his anti sickness meds and put him on antibiotics aswell and it helped.

    There are alot of anti sickness meds available and I would definitely ask if they could be changed.

    As long as Mum doesn`t become dehydrated she should be ok until they can sort out her meds.

    I am thinking of you both and wishing Mum much better again soon.

    love scarlet xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Caroline

    Sorry to hear about Mums downturn and hope its shortlived. She could need anti-sickness changing but I can't help there as Metoclopramide is what I take, and touch wood work for me so far, but I know there are many others so she may benefit from a change. Can sympathise with the feeling sick and wishing you could actually be sick feeling. Hope you have some joy with doc as its all bad enough without some fool who should be able to help not doing the job they're paid for!

    Hope Mum feels better soon

    Maxine

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    A quick update.  Mum has just been really sick!  It's the first time she's actually been sick since she started feeling nauseous towards the end of last month.  It's not made her feel any better so so much for that theory.  I really am at my wits end so I will get up tomorrow and ask for a home visit and I will definitely stay off work until the doctor has been.  It's now less than 3 weeks until we go to Spain and mum has been so looking forward to it.  I'm now worried that if this continues she won't be fit to go.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Poor mum Caroline xx. I was just wondering if she had been suffering from constipation at all? sometimes that can cause the nausea and sickness. Try not to panic too much (hard I know) but alot could change in 3 weeks and with the right meds Mum could be much, much better.

    love scarlet xxxx