Too nice to do housework!

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It's been a while since I bored you with my ramblings about mother and the reason being, is that everything SEEMS to be plodding along without much upset at the moment. I had a really good chat with mothers doctor a while ago and she seems to think, like me, there hasn't been very much change in her for some time now...now and again little things crop up that make me think ' hear we go again', like demanding innapropriate clothing or giving money away but on the whole no massive change, that in itself baffles me because we were given six months/ish and now we are a year on!! Sometimes I think they've got it wrong and the scans got muddled up? And the consultant ,made a dreadful mistake with telling her to get her finances etc sorted..she even said the only thing she could do for mother was refer her to the hospice!?!?!?! Anyway we just plod on and be grateful that at the mo her demands arnt quite so bad as they have been, and long may it last! I've been busy with doing things for both my sons and visiting scrummy Ava, Strange how I have never really gone overboard on children but Ava is just so scrummy, I love being with her and hate saying goodbye! I should be at a funeral today, someone I used to know years ago, the family called me last week and said he had died and at the time I said of course I'll be at the funeral...well it's such a lovely day and I just couldn't face driving nearly 50 miles to go...now that's bad of me isn't it? I am going to have to take my dog to the vets later, his skin allergy has come back with a vengeance, I gave him extra steroids and 3 anti histamines yesterday..he was spaced out most of the day poor thing. This morning I showered him at 5 am cos I was tired of listening to him nibbling away and dragging himself over the carpet to get a bit of relief...it really is a full time job caring for him, I'm sure others would easily have given up on him but he's only 4 and couldn't stand rhe thought of putting him to sleep cos of his skin..So it's an ongoing problem we just have to deal with..thank god I've got a fab vet! I'm loving this weather, although it does stop me from getting on with housework, I just can't be arsed when it's so lovely outside...so I've got a messy house, but I don't care.! Hope your all ok and enjoying the sunshine. Much love and thanks for listening! Xxxxxx
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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember
    I'm not in the mood Hilary for stupid people, I try and be kind to most but the older I get the less tolerant I am to idiots!!! Xx
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I thought community had got rid of her, that is if she's not a he!

    Mandy, I'm glad your mother has been less demanding and I'm sure your friend's family willunderstand about the funeral if they know the pressure you are under.

    Never mind the housework, it won't go away (more's the pity).

    odin xxx