my lovely mum...

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FormerMember

29 Jan 2011

My lovely mum lost her fight in the early hours of the 27th jan, i was with her as was my aunt and my eldest daughter, not that she wanted to be there..we never thought that she would go that night, but i think she had, had enough and was tired, i feel lost... there is so much to be done...how do we get on with everthing...this is mums life...and what do we do with it ....its so hard...mum would have been 70 years old on the 8th of feb, So we have arranged to have her funeral on that day, so we can celebrate her life

I hope she knows what we are doing i am sure she will i just want to be able to not have that sadness on her birthday every year so its just one sad and happy day every year.... i dont know if that makes sense.. it does to me at the moment time will tell eh..

Mum was in no pain and was very settled and just seemed to sleep away,that gives me some comfort and the fact that i was able to spend the last 3 weeks at mums caring for her was a pleasure to be able to do for her and would have not had it any other way, to say i will miss her deeply is an under statement, i was at mums most days of the week i dont know how i will spend my days, she was not just my mum but my best friend.. what do i do without her ...??

all i can say is god bless mum and i will miss you so much i dont have the words to say..

i love you mum xxx

FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Silvery,

I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. Myself and my Family send you our deepest sympathy, Im glad to hear you and the family where with her when she passed away. That will give you peace of mind in the coming days. It will be hard for you but you are strong and have plenty of support. Look after yourself. May your Mum R.I.P.

Take care and be safe big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

I'm so sorry for your loss, and my condolences to you and your family. I think it's a lovely idea to celebrate your mum's life on her birthday.

I lost my dad on 14th Jan, and like you am not sure how to fill the time now, as I spent time with him almost every day for the past 18 months. It hasn't really sunk in yet to be honest. But I'm glad at Dad's funeral we were able to celebrate his life - with laughter as well as tears. I sincerely hope that you and your family are able to do the same.

Flo
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Just to say sorry to read of your loss - losing someone so close is hardest but at least she's at peace now and no longer suffering. As for what you will do without her, its early days and you have a lot of crying to do. However, if you had a chance to ask your mum what you should do what do you think she would say? I hope you are able to answer for her as you know your mum best and, in the best possible way, live whatever you think she would say to the max. Take care, and celebrate big time on the 8th Feb - your mum was/is always going to be special. Ann x
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Just wanted to add my condolences to the others posted. I'm glad she didn't suffer and you had a chance to be with her. Hope all goes well on the 8th and you celebrate her life ias she would have wished.

Best wishes Di x
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Silvery

Am vey sorry that you have lost your mum and hope that the funeral gives you some comfort as mums did to me. It is very difficult to imagine life without your mum but every day you will have treasured memories of her with you in your heart, and love lasts eternally.

Thinking of you, Sharonx
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