Dads home

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well, I now have Dads ashes here, I know it sounds silly but i cant believe my dad is in that wooden box, its like he has gone away, sounds stupid, as i was with him everyday, and helped him while he was ill, cant believe he is gone, just miss him so much, am going back to work next week hopefully, mum is back at her house, trying to get on, i have organised help to help her cook etc, just want dad here

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    HI Tina,

    I am so very sorry for loss and hope that over time it gets easier for you.

    I have just caught up on your previous posts and wow what a daughter you are!. Your dad was very lucky to have such a caring and loving daughter and he must have been so proud of you.

    Nothing that I can say will make you feel any better or make that emptiness go away but you are in my thoughts.

    Take care

    X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    thankyou Bonnie, its the whole thing with mum as well, was planning on having a day for me today, to, as well as catch up with house work, just chill and watch a film or something, but have had a call from mum, the tv and heater went off, shes blown a fuse or something, i dont drive, so i now have to get a cab to mums, its prob just a matter of putting one of the electric switches up, im going to give age concern a call to see what help i can get, i have explained to mum i have to get back to work, she cant keep doing this, feel like im going crazy at times..

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Tinap,

    I was so sorry to hear about your Dad. But now he is at peace.

    I agree with everything Bonnie has said,wise words.

    All the best,and look after yourself.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    thankyou guys, went out yesterday and bought our latest family member , a siberian husky puppy, he is gorgeous, 10 weeks old, so good, he follows me everywhere, before i got him i cant remember the last time i smiled like this, its just the quiet moments that hurt, or certain songs etc, xxxxx