and still waiting.........

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still no results, my uncle and i went to hospital yesterday, spoke to dads nurse as was told we would find out friday if cancer has spread etc, she looked at dads records and we saw that there was results, she said she didnt understand them and would arrange for us to see doctor.. dad is acting really loud, i can see real sadness in his eyes though, my sister is here now and helping with mum, all i know is dad is having paliative care, they have took drip etc out and he is on morphine amoung other stuff, head is everywhere,........

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Tina, just wanted to say I am thinking of you.

    I have been where you are and know how you feel.

    Best wishes, Christine xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Tina,

    Now you can have a break that your sister is here helping your Mum. You try and take things easy for a while.

    Take Care and Be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Been there and it's awful. You really have my sympathies. Playing the waiting game is torture. I sincerely hope you get good results. xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    p..s. God, I know exactly .... head being everywhere. Takes me back. It will get better. Honestly it will.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Tina,  I do feel for You . . . . . I think you should ask the Nurse, who you spoke to today, to ask the Doctors to make an appointment to see you, as soon as possible..  

    It is unfair of them to leave you 'out of the picture' -

    from what you have said, it sounds like they want to

    give your Dad a break to allow him to rest from the

    Drip, which you say they have removed.

    A chance for your Dad to rest and be totally comfortable and out of pain - hence the morphine.

    Tina, take this chance to get yourself some rest and enable yourself to think straight.  Gain some strength now that your Sister is here and most importantly

    gather as a family and help your Mum to gain a little strength also.

    It is a most terrible time.... try and have some meals

    together, get some sleep - look after yourselves.

    We are all wishing you well and hope your Dad gets stronger.   Cancer is so destructive - it is the most awful disease..  I hope you get good results.

    Thinking of You,

    Carol XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX