right, i know im at risk for targetting here... but everyone has there own opinion. and i am going to say mine...
maybe i should just keep quiet, as i dont want to argue.. but...
without this site, no matter what lay out, many people wouldnt of had the support they have had...
honestly.. how many of you can say.. ive not had no support from this site.
wether it be information about the cancer/care/money... etc.. it is all support. support from forums, support from blogs, support from chat.
i think sometimes people forget that behind the names of the writing... there are people, people that try hard, people that all have there own worries, yet take the time to comfort others, people that have taken the time to reply to a blog or a forum.. most importantly... these people HAVE FEELINGS!!!
and admin are only human... they are doing there best to try to make everyone happy. and somewhere along the line, its going to be hard to please over 50,000 people on this site...
ok fair enough things can be done to improve the site.
BUT IN THE YEAR I HAVE BEEN HERE>>>>> I HAVE FOUND SOOOO MANY FRIENDS, SUPPORTED SOOO MANY PEOPLE, AND TO ME, IT DIDNT MATTER WHAT THE SITE LOOKED LIKE....
i had the support. and gave the support.... and can i say....
all the arguing is going to put people off...
so lets think about what brought us here...
why we are here.
one word
CANCER.
one thing we all came for was to find answers, and support, then you support others. wether it be you are the patient, the carer of a patient, or wether you have lost a loved one to cancer.
the simple solution is.. we all have eyes, we all have a mind, if you begin to read a post you find upsetting, dont carry on reading it...that way it cant bother you then.
and as i say.. this blog wasnt for an arguement. so please dont comment on it, if you are going to be arguing.
