Dear Blog sorry i have not been here for a while .
Mum has come out of hospital and is to stay with us until the end .
I seem to be making endless tea and taking endless phone calls ( mum cannot hear on the phone so i have to relay ).
I am trying to work at home also , mums TV is SO LOUD i think cross then i think well its not going to be long she has to have her pleasure.
Today we went to see the onecologist at Taunton mum has opted for no treatment ,the big C is in her Brain,Kidney and through to the bone .
At 85 i wonder if i would choose this way also her reason being that if the end is the same wether it comes soon or in a few weeks ...........
At the mo she is ok no pain , mobility reasonable for a 85year old .
Still able to converse and make a joke , listen to music and her beloved Midsummer murders and Morse .
Everyone talks of Pallative care but still no-one has contacted the onecoligist is going to send aletter to her GP.
If anyone reads this who also has a close relative facing dying in maybe a few weeks please could you contact maybe we could help support each other ?
