On Monday I found out that my surgery will not go ahead until 3rd Nov!! Such a long wait I feel considering I was diagnosed on 15th Sept with grade 2 breast cancer and my tumour is 11cm so I’m told. Has anyone else experienced such a waiting time? Is this normal procedure?
I`m so worried about it spreading further through my body (If it hasn't already) but they said a few weeks is neither here nor there... who are they kidding eh... maybe not for them but wow it seems like a lifetime now to me.
I am still yet to tell my 8 year old, just as well as I do not want to get her worried to soon before surgery. Had some fantastic advise from this site regarding speaking to your children, I`d like to thank those who replied again, your suggestions changed how I looked at the whole picture of things and have cleared my mind of some doubts.
Do we have a choice as to whether we have a single or double mastectomy? I already have 2 calcium deposits in my other breast and have been told that this will be cut out during the surgery for a left mastectomy... can I choose 2 be done with it and have both removed now rather than the constant worry of it re-occurring in the future and ending up with more surgery in the future? Just all seems a bit bizarre right now. Can anyone shed any light on this as my appt with breast care nurse is not until next week? Thanks again to all X
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