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Hi Midge,

I lost my partner suddenly to brain cancer 14 yrs ago and I can still remember that feeling of helplessness, I used to sleep with his jacket because it still held his smell. These feelings went on for weeks but it does become more bearable, everyone is an individual and deals with grief in their own way so there is no right or wrong.  If you want to pm me Midge then please do so anytime.

Take care

Love Terri xx

Hi Midge, its early days for you yet,

losing your wife is still so very raw

and the pain is still overwhelming, that

is natreal. Dont rush yourself, you miss

and love your wife and its not going to

be easy, but you are taking the right

steps in meeting people who are facing

the same heartbreak, and it helps im sure by talking about your feelings.

I hope in time you will be able to face

your situation with a positive out look

for the future, and remember your love

for each other will live on forever.

Sending you a big hug.

  With Love Lucylee. XXXX

Hi Midge, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband, my best friend and soulmate 10 weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. I didnt get a chance to say goodbye....I know that devasting lonely feeling...that emptiness that no-one can fill. Like you I want to be with him, but know its not yet my time. I strongly believe we will be together again one day. I've given up on thinking of the future, I just take an hour at a time at the moment, I hate the sunami of emotions that keep coming.....they are so alien to me, but I WILL be strong and get through this, because I know thats what he would have wanted. I've found chatting to other bereaved people on this site helpful...there always seems to be someone available to talk to, even in the middle of the night, when I'm always at my lowest. Please contact me if you want to talk privately. One thing I can say is.....I know how you are feeling. Take care of yourself....Anita xx

midgie, I am sorry fo ryour great sorrow and sadness. Try to be easy on yourself. It is a long hard road you are travelling. It is like being on a rollercoaster. Up one second, down the next. I am 31 weeks in and am still in complete turmoil.  I get on with my life (or a pale imitaion of my life) because I have no choice but I am not sure how.  I have just started to attend a breavement support group and am hoping that this will help in some way. I hope that you find the support group and this site help you through the difficult times until you find some peace. I understand some of how you are feeling but each of us grieves in our own way and no-one can ever truly know exactly how you feel  x x Patricia x x

Hi Anita,thank you for your reply yes its very true know one can fill our emtiness and our feelings for our beloved ones they say time heals i dont think it will for me i am hoping this support group i have joined will help. thank you for those kind words of being there for me. Midgie xx