Getting Desperate Now and very angry

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FormerMember

6 Jun 2011

Monday 6th June, 2011

John got up this morning but was back in bed after only half an hour because of the retching and pain. Had trouble getting his tablets down but did manage in the end. I hate to see him like this.

I cancelled his doctor's appointment for tomorrow to check his blood pressure and requested that a district nurse come out instead. The receptionist was very offhand but promised to get a nurse to contact me - still waiting. I actually think that his blood pressure is the least of his problems so not too bothered about that.

Then I phoned the Mac Helpline to ask how long they thought it would be before we were contacted by our local MacMillan. Again no joy. He told me it could take up to TWO WEEKS before somebody contacts us because they're so busy. So, where do we go from here?

I'm dreading Thursday when we go to the hospital for the results of the scan but I'm determined to get him there even though he might be retching in the waiting room - the other patients will have to put up with it! He carries a bowl with him everywhere now.

Very scared about the future. I don't want him to go into hospital. I want to look after him at home but how can I do it without any support?

I'm seething with anger and yet the tears are welling up but I daren't start blubbing because it would upset John. As my lovely nan would have said, BUGGER, BUGGER, BUGGER, BUGGER, BUGGER, BUGGER BUGGER!!!!!

FormerMember over 13 years ago

oooh madge so sorry to hear this. Have you tried the helpline on this site? They may be able to give some advice. I understand they may be busy but it sounds like you are at breaking point and there is no way you can wait 2 weeks! I wish I could help in some way - hope you get it sorted. xx
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Mage just try and stay focused. Is there a practice manager at the doctors, speak to them, if no help then raise a formal complaint. There must be some help you can get, where do you live?
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Hello Madge

My sister had your Johns terrible retching symptoms ((hug)) its dreadful I know.

One day she was so bad i called a taxi and took her to A&E to cut a long story short they kept her in for a ffew days. Madge I think John needs some anti sickness meds via injection, i always remember a kind Dr who gave sis an injection (strong anti sickness) and within 10 minutes she stopped retching and was able to sleep.

Another thing you could try is to contact your local hospice and explain how alone you feel..they may be able to help somehow as they are good at getting meds sorted.

I know how worried you feel Madge I wish i could help you both.

Much love scarlet xxx
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KateG over 13 years ago

I agree - it sounds as if you have reached breaking point. How about requesting a home visit from your GP? And whilst your at it, tell him/her about their snotty receptionist.

Sending you cyber hugs,

KateG
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Hi Madge,

I agree with Kate you shouldnt have to put up with this.If I were you I would phone Johns Dr and request a home visit immediately if not sooner. All the best and good luck to you both.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx
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