Ouch

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Got shouted at today - nothing major and sticks and stones etc - but not how we normally interact. I know he didnt mean it, I know he is worried about tomorrow but part of me wants to shout back- its not my fault , I am trying to help - and part of me wants to say - I know you are going to be cross, I know you need to get it out - thats what I am here for - never be sorry about that. The second option won thank goodness. Oh well - feel better for saying it :-)

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Lyn,

    Its not easy, you wanted to hear what I called my wife, Sorry wrote down as I cannot speak. Its all part of the

    worrying and fear Game, of whats next.  You both will be fine after a while.  But you seem to be doing all the right things. Just keep trying to communicate.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

    P.S. Any questions just p/m me .

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi lyn,

     we all go down this road,apart from us men we're perfect ha ha. i go moody and quiet then tend to be sharp when answering, my wife keeps out of the road then reminds me of it later.

      stick with it there are more ups and downs to come hopefully more of the ups.

      take care joe x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Ah bless you both - its good to here from your perspective -both as men and patients (not patience !) I guess for every hill we climb down we have to get up and over it first ?!

    Will be leaving 6am tomorrow - hope to be able to post at some time just depends how things go.

    Happy healing thoughts to you all xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Lynn,

    Well done you, as hard as we carers have it I know for a fact that none of us would opt out of showing how much we care even if our tongues do have to suffer in the process ;)

    Good luck for tomorrow.

    Hugs and best wishes

    Helenxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I have been shouted at plenty of time by my hubby. I think he is handling it pretty well however he slips sometime. We are all humans and do loose our temper.

    I do shout back if I am well if I am sick I just grunt and walk out of the room.

    take care x