Partner and I have decided surgery was the treatment for him. But the last surgery he had went really bad and his recovery time was alot longer then it should have been because it went so wrong. I am so scared that this surgery will go wrong. And that he will be left with more damage then what the doctor's are claiming might happen along the lines of unusual damage like his last surgery which was gall bladder removal. Which has left him with a slowly tearing muscle they can do nothing about.
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hi sorry to hear your patner's last surgery went wrong,though that dosn't mean that this lot of surgery will. i know what you mean though as i had a hysterectomy 12yrs ago that went wrong. when i needed surgery for breast cancer i was scared witless but it did go well. i did more surgery after but that was because of the cancer not the effects of the surgery . i wish you both lots of luck & hope for a speedy recovery for your partner after his next lot of surgery . take care love n hugs theresa xxx
we met in the chat room last night, so it was good to find your blog on here. Sorry though about the difficult decision you have to take together. It sounds as if your partner already has a lot of pain to contend with. Just wanting to send good wishes to you both.
i agree with treeze, it will go smoothly this time, most do go smoothly, (and i should know i`ve had 8 lol). i know its hard but try not to worry too much, distract your mind with something. keep yourself busy with something, anything,when its all done, you`ll say phew, what was i worrying about. thinking of you both, liz xxxxxxxxxx
