Im sorry that i feel, the need to post this blog, to me this site has been fantastic and has helped me so much with the daily living and coping with the issue of having a loved one with cancer.
I could not have got through the passed few very difficullt months with out the support of all the lovely people i have met here!. The one thing that stands out the most is how nice people are even though they may be going through there own struggles.
The thing that has saddened me is to see people posting negative bloggs regarding support ,friends or chat some people have even been rude and in some cases down right abusive on chat. it would be nice to see a little more positiveness. Maybe reading some other blogs will give people an idea of how in need of support some people actually do need.
Having said that there are so many lovely, supportive, genuine, caring the list goes on..... people here and as i have said before i could not have been without it. I do hope that no one takes offence by this as it has never been my intention.
To be honest over the past week i have seen a lot and the thing that topped it off was when two lovely people who had both lost people very dear to them, were giving abuse form a member on chat, as there loved ones had not even been laid to rest. I do think it is important not to judge others but to see this happened was very hard to comprehend. Well on a positive i enjoy talking to so many lovely people on both blogs and chat and will do for a long while to come. take care lisa
