My mum has just been diagnosed with secondary breast cancer and we have been told this is now in the lungs and spine. Mum is on the meds femara. she is only 53 and we lost my younger sister at 14 with lung cancer so this is a really scary moment for us. the docs are reluctant to talk about how long this horrible black monster is going to torture her for!!!!! can anyone please tell me what there experiences were in going…