Kezzerbird...Calling all carers for help

Oh god, how awful, he obviously loves you and cant cope with whats going on, when drunk you loose all your senses, I think you both need some help and quick !  My heart goes out to you it is very difficult to cope and men are generally the weaker sex as we all know.  I hope you have some lovely friends and friends that are local to you that can step in and help you all out.  I am on line often if you wanna talk or send a message.  Take care my friend I am thinking of you xxxxxx big hugs xxx

Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry your guy is being such a (as you say) sh**. No excuses for him. Perhaps time apart will be good providing there is someone else who can care for you. As you say, he's  simply making matters worse and you can do without extra stress.

Cyber hugs,

KateG

Hi Carol I am so sorry that you are having to go through this as well as fighting cancer.

If you are unhappy with your partner then you need to be strong and make him go!

The end of your life should be free from any other worries other than what you have to deal with right now.

As you know I lost my husband to this disease and the 4 years we knew he was going to die was horrendous more so than me getting a diagnosis of cancer.

Luckily I was a strong person and I put my own feelings of dread aside and made my husband a priority. His wishes and needs came first even if I disagreed with them.

Without knowing your partner I can't really comment on what he is going through. Your friends and family know him best what do they say?

You said that in the beginning he was a caring gentle man. Well maybe the answer is there, he is so caring and so gentle that he cannot cope with the inevitable and he seeks strength from alcohol.

I did the same thing for awhile after I lost my husband.

That doesn't excuse his behaviour.

Oh Carol my love I hope you can find a solution to this it has been going on too long and you deserve better.

My heart is with you lots of love Julie xx

Dear Carol, my heart goes out to you. You don't deserve this crap on top of everything else. I hope your situation improves soon - sending you big hugs. Val X

{{{Carol}}}

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