a little help

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my name is catherine my husband has had his left lung removed due to lung cancer ....we r finding it quiet difficult comin to terms with it as they said the tumour was alot bigger than they thought T3 N1 and some of his glands were infected he is due back to oncoligist on the 9th june ..he needs chemo but is frightened he wont be able for it as he has been so sick lately and just wants it to stop now and wants to feel better i know this is not goin to be easy but i really feel for him as he had a pitutry tumor three years ago had it removed but has been so ill ...was just gettin a bit better when we got this news and i dont know how much more he can take
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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi katz.

    have sent you a private msg

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Sending you and your husband much love, it is so frightening where you are right now, you feel so out of control don't you?  Talk to lots of people on here, talk to the nurses assigned to help you both and keep positive, I know how hard that can be but it's the only way.  Good luck I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    it's okay to be scared and freaking out and all over the place. Uncertainty is the worst. you can pm me anytime you need/want to. we are all here to help and support eachother! sometimes we get a little silly, but it takes the stess off. I know your're worried, and I feel for you. hope everything goes well, and there is always hope . I'll keep you in my prayers. I just got diagnosed, so I wish the both of you peace and love. <<<<<lights a candle>>>>>> peace and faith be with you!

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    thank u so much i wasnt expectin to here so soon from people this is a great support group and i am glad to be part of it now lots of love to u and hope to talk soon xxxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    i know my stomach does be in nots all the time ..i was in the chat rooms a while ago and its great to have a laugh didnt relise there would be so many people on my god talk to u soon xxx