Been to the hospital today to see consultant with Jools. Been given devstating news that he is now terminal with a few months left. Dont know what to do.............i am in a turmoil........want to scream......run........punch......kick.THIS IS NOT FAIR AFTER ALL HE HAS BEEN THROUGH.
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so very sorry to hear this news my heart breaks for you nothing i can say other than my thoughts are with you, such a cruel devastating desease so unfair, bless you and your family x x
I'm so sorry to hear your news, i'm new to all this with my husband only being diagnosed last week. You must be feeling every emotion under the sun, most of all anger and sheer frustration. my thoughts really are with you, big hugs xxx
I think you should do all those things (scream run shout smash things) and then you will probably put the smile back on to be the loving, coping, caring, marvellous person you are. I sometimes have the urge to grap people in the street and shout at them that they don't know how lucky they are. Life is not fair, but it is all we have and we owe it to all those who don't have enough to make the best of every little bit.
If you send me your address I will send you a 'Shaun' in lieu of a hug and a copy of the book which will be helpful for you I think and for those around. It gave me the courage to ask for help and not mind how I presented myself, knowing people would understand.
Please dont give up they said my husband was terminal and he is still with me can your partner have chemo i am sure it will help ? Im sending you both BIG hugs please do not give up luv Lilian xxxx
