Mum had her appointment after her op .. Good news the cancer hadnt spread to the lymphnodes as suspected .
They are confident they have got all the tumour out but she still needs Radio and Chemo therapy..
She is very upset about the possibilty of losing her hair ... She is 55 years and still has long blond hair with sprinkle of grey .. She is worried it will grow back grey.
She is single and has always been attractive to men and is worried she will now be on her own forever.
She is panicking about finances .. She lives alone and has a small mortgage .. She worked up to a few days before her op.
and she only get 60 odd pounds a week on sick.
The mortgage and credit card company have only charged her daft charges and are on the phone all the time chasing payment ..
She got a letter from disabilty saying she isnt ill enough for disabilty ..
I am so frustrated, as I am a single mum of five so cant help much financially and its school holiday so cant be at my mums as much as i d like !!
Thanks for listening to me rant !! it helped ..
