Just Unlucky ?

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I'm 39 and living with my partner in Scotland.  My father died from a Brain Tumor in his early fifties, my sister was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and is now continuing her remedial therapy after successful chemo treatment.  My brother of 52, died on the 21st of Dec this year from a rare type of Lymphoma.   I feel now is a time for myself to ensure my own wellbeing and do something positive for Cancer treatments and patients.  I've set targets for the coming year with my partner for fundraising and raising more awareness for the for cancer research.  

I'm wondering if i'm unlucky to have had 3 family members all with different types of cancer or in anyway are these connected by family genetics.  It's worrying that i could be in a high risk situation or low risk and only affected by considerably bad luck.

Jim, my brother passed away within a week of being diagnosed, i was shocked at the speed at which this occured and i'm trying to come to terms with the circumstances in which this occured. 

It's made me  think more closely at the fine balance of life and how i can now help to raise funds and awareness for cancer support.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Im so sorry for your losses and cant imagine how hard it must be for you. I think your doing a good thing by fundraising and being positive. I hope this disease isnt genetic and wish you good health and all the luck for your fundraising.

    Take care

    Nicola

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    it's great that you are going to raise awareness and funds for cancer - I think it does make you think about things when you've had cancer in the family.

    It's true that some cancers can be hereditary - and there are probably lots more that they don't realise have a genetic link. I saw a geneticist who said to me 'There is still so much we DON'T know about different cancers'.  So all you can do is be aware of your own health.  My mum had melanoma, my dad had prostate cancer (both still here) and my cousin had a brain tumour, astrocytoma.  I also had  an aunt who died of lung cancer.  Good luck with fundraising, Jeanie x        

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    So sorry about all you have been through, focusing on fundraising is a great idea, I'm doing the same myself, trying to raise money for the local chemo unit, for cold cap machines, good luck

    LIZ xxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Gord,

    Im sorry to hear about the members of your family Dying for this terrible disease. I have had 2 bros and 1 Sister, who also died of Cancer at an early age.

    If I was you I would ask your Gp what he thinks about a genetic link just to be on the safe side.

    All the best and Good Luck.

    Take care and be safe Sarsfield.