I honsetly thought macmillan cancer support meant just that !!!

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Well what is going on on here ? ive just hijacked carolines blog as if honest im so peed off ! im even thinking of leaving , its beyond a joke now,

I came on this site as my husband was dying ,he died in march and i could not have got through without the support ,love and kindness on here , i have 2 very special friends from here that will be my closest friends prob forever , and i wish i could name all the rest of you but id be here till christmas ,you know who you are and i love you all very much ,i now have an amazing new job , im waiting for a phonecall in next few days with maybe fingers crossed some permanant shifts on one ward that wants me, so im very positive atm,

Or i was , till yesterday, this site has turned into a bitchy playground !!! and its pathetic , i dont care anymore if you disagree with me im just stating my opinion, and yes i am friends with some of people invloved ,this is not about them or me , or admin for gods sake, 

Can  i just remind you why we are here ,its very simple really

         CANCER !!!!!

Patients ,,,, carers ,,,, wifes ,,,husbands ,,, sons ,,,,daughters,,,, mums,,, dads ,,,, widows ,,, brothers ,,,sisters ,,friends ,,, i could carry on but i hope its not necessary ,  cancer affects us all , i myself will always open my arms and my heart and be here for ANYONE affected by cancer , or anyone that needed to talk and needed support as i have done many many times ,   

SO PLEASE PLEASE , REMEMBER WHY WE ARE HERE !!!!

LOVE AND HUGS XXXXXX

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Everyone,

    Just letting you know that I have posted an Admin Blog about the recent site discussions. I hope it is helpful.

    You can copy and paste this link below if you wish:

    community.macmillan.org.uk/.../graeme-s-membership-admin-s-official-response.aspx

    Speak soon

    Emelia x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Everyone,

    Just letting you know that I have posted an Admin Blog about the recent site discussions. I hope it is helpful.

    You can copy and paste this link below if you wish:

    community.macmillan.org.uk/.../graeme-s-membership-admin-s-official-response.aspx

    Speak soon

    Emelia x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    This blog was started to remind everyone of why we are ,and i think may have worked,

    I didnt realise what people thought of me on here and ive been astounded by all comments but most off all pm,s ive had on here and on facebook , one private message in paticular actually made me cry ( thanx john can always rely on you x )

    ive had a tough week with my bad back, been very low and had real problems with my teenage girls too ,and ive been feeling very lonely ,which isnt like me but hey even i can have a few bad days,

    but once again we have all proved we are here for each other ,and that was the reason for my blog so instead of me or anyone else leaving , can we all plz take a deep breath , forget whats happened , and carry on loving and supporting each other as we do best :)

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks Jenni - You Just Made My Day !!

    Love and Hugs

    Joihn xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Jenni,

    Just thought I would add my two pennyworth then I thought what does it matter.  When Steve died last November everyone helped me tremendously but I did try to give something back in later months but I felt I was wasting my time.  I still have some good friends from here but I have felt I have become invisible and it is pointless to post or go into chat.  I still read the posts most days but now I very rarely post.

    Anyway, these are my feelings and I am so glad you are having good luck with your job - you deserve it

    Love Stacey  xxx