I honsetly thought macmillan cancer support meant just that !!!

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FormerMember

21 Oct 2010

Well what is going on on here ? ive just hijacked carolines blog as if honest im so peed off ! im even thinking of leaving , its beyond a joke now,

I came on this site as my husband was dying ,he died in march and i could not have got through without the support ,love and kindness on here , i have 2 very special friends from here that will be my closest friends prob forever , and i wish i could name all the rest of you but id be here till christmas ,you know who you are and i love you all very much ,i now have an amazing new job , im waiting for a phonecall in next few days with maybe fingers crossed some permanant shifts on one ward that wants me, so im very positive atm,

Or i was , till yesterday, this site has turned into a bitchy playground !!! and its pathetic , i dont care anymore if you disagree with me im just stating my opinion, and yes i am friends with some of people invloved ,this is not about them or me , or admin for gods sake,

Can i just remind you why we are here ,its very simple really

CANCER !!!!!

Patients ,,,, carers ,,,, wifes ,,,husbands ,,, sons ,,,,daughters,,,, mums,,, dads ,,,, widows ,,, brothers ,,,sisters ,,friends ,,, i could carry on but i hope its not necessary , cancer affects us all , i myself will always open my arms and my heart and be here for ANYONE affected by cancer , or anyone that needed to talk and needed support as i have done many many times ,

SO PLEASE PLEASE , REMEMBER WHY WE ARE HERE !!!!

LOVE AND HUGS XXXXXX

FormerMember over 14 years ago

Oh Jenni - please tell what the problem is., you are an essential part of this place especially the chat room. Whatever has upset you, I'm sure we can fix - and I would be gutted if you left.................
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Jenni, I don't know what went on but I can't believe your leaving....... What the he'll is happening to this site, every now and again this happens, why do people cause arguments on a cancer site I will never know....

Good luck jenny, sorry you are going

Liz xxxx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi everyone,

Being a newbie here, not too sure whats gone on, but I think it's amazing how everyone (well, most) pull together and is here for friendship and support of others.

I think with every social network site and chat room there is always people that cause trouble or people that say the wrong things.......BUT!!!! Never would have thought to find it on here.

Aren't we all going through enough without all this cr**.??????

Jenni if you leave, they win, and you miss out on all the genuine people.

;0)

...x.x.x.
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Love you girl. You cant leave. i dont post as much just now but watch some of the posts and seemed to have missed something. Everyone says stuff they regret or it comes out wrong, me included so i hope this was the case. if not so what! You and all the other wonderful folk on here must ignore any insensitive people. Lets hope they see sense and get on with fighting the damned desease and not each other. What a waste of energy and goodness knows we need every ounce. Well done with the job (((((((((((((((((((((h))))))))))))))))))) love leisha xxxx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

OMG What the hell is going on in the chat rooms???? I have just looked at three blogs and they all seem to be of the same ilk....... Jenni please don't leave you are needed on here by so many people.

We are all here because we are patients/carers/friends of someone with this bloody awful disease.

Lets just get on with what we all come on here for and that is SUPPORT/LAUGHS/ADVICE and last but not least to meet new FRIENDS.

Please stay Jenni love and huge hugs to you xxx
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