stage 4 cancer

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this is gonna sound stupid but what signs do i look out for when my mum's health starts to deteriroate anyone got any ideas please help she was given 3-6mnths 12 max now she is approaching the 12 month mark i thing her health is starting to go down hill but im not sure

 

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi has your mum got a Macmillan nurse or a palliative care nurse, that should be there to help with any questions you need answers too. You should not have to cope with your mums illness without help, it must be very scary for you both.

    Please let us know how you get on.

    With hugs Lucylee. xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    its one of those questions we cant really answer... everyone is different, you should ask the nurses, they will give you honest informed answers... (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) xoxoxo

    liz xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi,

    I go with Lucy,where is the help when you need it there should be somebody there that you can ask questions about your Mum. You shouldnt have to go looking for answers. you havnt mentioned if your Mum is at home or in Hospital. Either way she should have Palliative care.

    Take care and be safe Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi, i have to agree everyone is diffrent i lost my hubby at the weekend after just 7 weeks all i can say is ask her nurse but they cant give a definate answer just take each day as it comes

    sending love and hugs

    sandra....xxx

  • I add my best wishes and hope your Mum looks and feels better today.

    Each day is different I find and it all depends on the fighting power within you.

    I was given 3 months and that was exactly a year ago this week so you just cant tell every one is different.

    As everyone says talk to the experts as they are always there to help.

    Love mavis x