Up Up and Away NOT !!

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Peter has rallied so well that  we decided to kick up our heels ,while we can.

Friday we shopped for new clothes as he has lost so much weight he was looking like a little boy in his dads suit.,we bought nice summer shirts, chinos even sunglasses, then as he is eating better each day we enjoyed a leisurely pub lunch followed by a boat trip round the harbour later we sat and watched the sunset over the sea absolutely brilliant. It did us both the world of good and Peter's spirits were lifted by the normality of the day.

Saturday Peter's new reclining armchair arrived, our lovely son in law came and rearranged the lounge to accommodate this new toy. Its so comfy Peter climbed in and  slept all afternoon. meanwhile I was anxiously watching the weather, I rang the hot air balloon flight line at 22.00 hrs to be informed that  my secretly booked dawn flight  for all the family ,over the countryside followed by a champagne reception had been cancelled due to wind.  ( weather not the pilots)  

The family were unaware what I had planned, just that they needed to be up at 4.30 then  I would  txt further instructions  it was to be real secret squirrel stuff Our two daughters their husbands & 3 grandchildren  were already in bed, huh!!  I had to phone them and say the early surprise is off .

Oh well the best laid plans as they say I had chosen the hot air balloon ride as an activity we could all do together, the only restriction is height and we are all over 4ft 6.

Sunday The cat is well and truly out of the bag. Peter guessed what it was when I said he could have a lie in. The rest of the family still woke early they said they had been  keen not to oversleep,  

our family day began not as planned but with a visit to an outdoor activity park where Peter joined in riding the zip wire, swings and rope ways, it was so good to see him able to enjoy activities we previously took for granted .

The 9 of us then had lunch at a rather posh old coaching inn where the service, food, drink and venue was first class and enjoyed by all of us.  

We took loads of photos and relished the happy day  and although I was disappointed that my big surprise didn't happen. we still have it to look forward to, I have rescheduled for mid August. weather and Peters health permitting 

Peter has one more week of steroids then he has to go it alone, I will do everything I can to ensure he continues to improve and enjoy life. we can still have adventures and fun and quiet times and peace we just have to try. and not waste a moment.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Wow, not one but two pub lunches! I am so pleased ur having such a great time arranging activities (even if they get called off due to wind -laughed a lot at your joke!) and doing normal stuff. 

    All the best, 

    Wease x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember
    Hi Mushty I was just wondering did you ever get to go on that balloon ride? The reason I ask is my mam was diagnosed with lung cancer in August this year, she has always wanted to go in a hot air balloon and I just wanted to know how was it? Did Peter manage OK? Im thinking of surprising her this Christmas with tickets to book up for next year with my dad just worried she wont be able to go and dont want to put her at risk, I want to make her life enjoyable and worth living. Sorry I'm new to this site, thank you :)
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Kayleigh Anne, So sorry you find yourself here and to hear about your Mam, its great that you want to make her life enjoyable.

    We rescheduled three times, in all and each time it was cancelled due to the weather. then they stop flying in the winter and Sadly Peter was never well enough to go before he died in May. We planned to go up and visit him but a further three family deaths in quick succession left us without the enthusiasm to go, so I lost the money. But that's life.

    My advise would be to phone around flight operators and choose an operator that has the foam seats in the basket,  that will let her get in when it is on its side, and don't book or more importantly pay until the very last moment, it is so very weather dependant and you have to go very early in the morning or some do evening flights as these are the times of day when the air is stillest.

    Best Wishes to you and your family Mushty x