I can't see anyone today. My head is in a really dark and angry place. Woke up feeling furiously angry....don't know who or what with. That's interspersed with periods of heartbroken sobbing....my chest hurts with the effort, not that I care really. Mom asked if I wanted her to come round, said she could if she wanted but warned her I was in a bad mood and don't really want to see anyone, so quite wisely she didn't. My daughter's due back from her Dad's tomorrow having been there since Tuesday night. I don't want her to come back. I haven't really thought about her at all or missed her. I am a cold, dark stone right now and don't have anything left to give her or anyone else. I know it's probably an insulting thing to write on here where so many people are fighting desperately to live....but I keep wishing I was dead. I can't feel any hope or belief this will get better. I know you would hate to see me like this and probably be very angry with me - but there's no one else I can tell this to and it really is how I feel. Sorry. How can things ever feel better? You are never going to be any less dead. I am never going to forget all that you and we have been through in the last months. Nothing is ever going to change any of those things - so how can it get better? I hate this and I hate everything.
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