My husband is dying - how cold that sounds... soon I will be a widow and with a 92 year old mother who is not healthy, I may lose my husband and mother in a year..and there is the 'I' word because it is not just about how I feel, but also how my children feel. One of them is almost hysterical and has taken time off work to be with my husband and I, the other two are quieter but just as deeply affected about losing…
