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FormerMember

25 Apr 2012

i was looking through my fiances photos of him strong and healthy and i started to get upset.. not only am i grieving for him, for what he is going through right now but kind of grieving the relationship we never got to have.. see i met him and then 6 months later he got told he had cancer.. our whole relationship has been about him being sick, hospitals, surgeries etc... i miss those short 6 months where we were a normal young couple.. i always wonder where we would end up if he wernt terminally ill...

FormerMember over 13 years ago

I think when someone has a cancer diagnosis, especially a terminal one, the grieving process begins, as you say, you are grieving for what you are about to lose and that is very sad indeed. He is far too young to be going through this, as are you.

I have no words of wisdom or anything to say to make it better for you, but just try and love each other and be happy together while you can because they will become the times you treasure when he's gone. You are making new memories now, every day.
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FormerMember over 13 years ago

Im very sorry for what you are going through Missym.As regards the blog I dont know why you cannot write more but in any case people seem to write a new blog each day if they want to.HUGS xxxxx
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