Unprepared

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I'm holding you now!

Welcome to this wonderful site that no-one wants to join but are glad they did.

We will support you through this.

Please don't feel ashamed of your feelings it is a very scary diagnosis.

Take each step at a time. Ask your specialist team

as many questions as you need. Write them down before your appointment.

Stick around this site and we will support you as best we can.

Good Luck with your treatment.

Lots of Love Julie X

Such natural, honest and wholly understandable feelings Harvey; and the courage to express them here and similarly on forum. Stay here and make full use of this caring community to get some much needed support. How are the rabbits doing ......have you made the arrangements you wanted ?

Big hugs

David [[[[XXX]]]

Hi Harvey

Please don’t think you’re alone whilst on this site as there are people that have been through what you are facing, so we understand completely how you feel.  Diagnosis of cancer is a huge shock and of course you need to talk with someone about it, so that’s why we are here for you.  Also, you should call the nurses on this site as they will be able to offer you some practical and emotional help and support.  These early days of tests are probably some of the worst because we sit around worrying and waiting all the time.  Nothing is blacker than an overactive imagination.  If you want to send me a pm, then feel free to do so.

Try not to worry because you’ll make yourself feel much worse.  Once you have the  results, then your team will be working to ensure you get the best and right sort of care.

I hope that your brother gets in touch soon and that you can find help with your pets.  Perhaps you could talk to your local vets about their short term care in the near future.

Love and Hugs

Crystal xx  

Hi Harvey,

Welcome to the site,it wouldnt be natural if you

werent scared to death. Its a Reaction we all had when we where told you have Cancer. But its not the begining of the end have a look at my profile and you will see what I mean,All the best and Good Luck.

Take care and be safe Sarsfield.

hi harvey the feelings you have at the moment are natural especially if like my mum ,you werent expecting a cancer diagnosis.big hugs and hope you manage to get a good treatment plan   love valxxx