My daughter s 3 yr anniversary

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Hi everyone just feeling very lost and very alone. It's her 3rd anniversary next week. I keep breaking down sobbing  and no matter where I am I can't hold it in my partner goes quiet and doesn't know what to say I keep thinking about why a young healthy girl of 25 yrs old didn't drink ,smoke do drugs ate healthy and went to the gym. Regularly .them from start to finish 13 months she had passed away I'm still devastated I'm lost I keep thinking that each year it might hurt a little less but I'm struggling alot my dad died on my birthday last yr aswell bless him how do you all cope with your loved ones anniversaries  I hope someone will help me with a bit of advice.  Thank you shellyanne .

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  • Hello Shellyanne ( 

    I have been following your blogs with interest and am so sorry to read what has happened. I wish myself sometimes I could "turn back time" but we need to carry on for the memory of our loved ones.

    I am Brian one of the Community Champions here at Macmillan. I just thought I would let you know we have a group on the Community where you might find some extra support and here's the link:

    Bereaved family and friends forum  

    Just click on the link I have provided and when the page opens up just click on "join" on the black banner at the bottom of the page.

    If you need any further help in navigating the Community, please do come back to me.

    Best wishes - Brian.