My darling Ray died on Monday 3rd August at 09.45pm after a 5 month fight with cancer. I brought him home on the Friday before and he spent his last days in his own bed and died with all his family around him. It was very traumatic and sad but I was glad it was at home. I miss him so much as he was my soulmate, best friend and lover. My family have been terrific and helped me so much over the last few days with all the practical stuff which is a great relief. I still find it hard to believe he is not going to walk in the door and say ' hi sweetie'. I will love him for the rest of my life. Ann
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Dear Ann
I am so sorry to hear that your darling Ray has passed away. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I feel so sad to read your post. This will be a difficult time for you and if you are like I was when my husband (also called Ray) died in March, then at the moment you will be feeling quite numb. I am so glad you have family to help with the practicalities. It is such a minefield once you get into all the paperwork involved.
My thought and prayers are with you and your family during this very emotional period. x x Patricia x x
