October 2024 - bad and good news , alongside a stressful couple of months

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Hi All

Sorry for my absence, we have been on a bit of a roller-coaster over the past few months..  

Dal is well!

After several steroid attempts to clear the pneumonitis in his lungs, it was decided by the sponsors' that Dal's lungs were not going to correctly heal, and that the trial treatment was only going to make things worse. Dal would be taken off the trial and we would now have to wait to see what else could be done for him.

Dal has had several scans, blood tests and periods of waiting whilst decisions were made on next steps, We were aware that there had been movement in his liver lesion and was advised that either further, different chemo would be considered or lazer ablation surgery, but we had to wait for further scans to dictate which.

It has been stressful, because Dal has now been off treatment since May, and considering how aggressive his type of tumour had been, not knowing what was going on inside of him was sort of eating away at me... forever positive, Dal increase the turkey tail mushroom intake, to counteract the lack of treatment and continued his meditation, and positive affirmations on his body and we continued our nightly acknowledgement of good days, and put in our requests for good news.

On Wednesday, we were given some news.   The liver lesion was actually two, 1.5cm spots which had joined together, making it too big for lazer ablation, the other turmours were behaving well and because of this, further chemo may not yet be needed, so, next steps will be Targeted Radiotherapy, we have a meeting next week, and then Dal will undertake 5 back to back sessions of radiotherapy directly on the affected area on his liver, he will then be reviewed for further next steps. 

Dal's  hair is still growing, all of his bloods are really good, white and red blood cell counts are back in normal range and overall, if you didn't know he was living with this alien, you would not know that he was ill at all...   he does sometimes get out of breath, and is occasionally more tired than normal, but considering everything, we are extremely blessed.

I will try to keep you updated a little more regularly, it is a huge relief to know, that after all these months without any treatment, the treatment that he had previously has preformed what can only be classed as miracle's, and our on-going gratitude is sent to everyone involved in Dal's treatment, we know how quickly things change with this disease, so we will remain ever vigilant and pray that Dal continues with positive outcomes. 

Take care of you. 

Lowe'

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  • Thank you for this detailed update, Lowe. I've just read it out to my husband. He's one of life's optimists anyway but feels really heartened to know that there are people, like your Dal, who can confound the statistics. We were told that best case scenario, on average would be 18-24 months survival with treatment. 

    The two of you sound like such a strong couple. We feel like that and are inspired.

    Sending continued strength and love,

    Lorraine and Rod xxx

  • That does sound like quite a rollercoaster but with a good outcome. Im glad the doctors are able to treat Dal and that he is overall well. I just replied to your direct message. Stay well. 

  • Thank you Lorraine and Rod,  a positive focus is hard at times, but helps in so many ways.  We truly believe that the Turkey tail compound has helped with his healing and will keep on taking that for the foreseeable future.  Non of us know what is around the corner, so we can only try and plan for good, rather than negative. 

    It does take strength, and i am sure you too will both continue to remain strong and resilient, and hopefully ignore their best case scenario, and make plans that go way beyond. 

    Take care, sending love and strength back at you 

    Lorraine and Daren

  • Hugs,)))  we are all on our own rollercoaster, holding on as tightly as possible..   Thinking of you.x 

  • lowe lozzat mentioned reading your blog, god i now know why, christ you both have been through so much, ashamed to say last few weeks i havent been positive just worried, ill and anxious,  and reading your blog, has helped me find so much strength, told the husband we need to grab each day what ever it brings as this new cancer arrival is not the same as my sudden masectomy, and job done, there is nothing guaranteed, will take some of this hope and positivity in the oncologist appointment tomorrow, and we have vowed to stop wasting time on stupid petty things, thank you, x jules