Now we are on the last day of 2008, and what a year. It started off with us both working like mad and just catching up when possible, to looking forward to a fortnights hols which were brilliant. Then a lump found but surely nothing to worry about, and then fear. The last few months have passed quickly and slowly, looking back it seems no time since we went to see the urologist, then the op, then the follow ups, but…