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My ex-wife was diagnosed with lung cancer on Monday, she is coming home from hospital this afternoon and I have moved back to what was the matrimonial home to become her full time carer.

I know that sooner or later I will be in need of help in dealing with my ex and also dealing with my own problems as her condition worstens.

She is going back to hospital tomorrow morning for a biopsy, but we know that the cancer has already moved to multiple sites on her spine so I am not very optimistic.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    well you couldnt have come to a better site....i was diagnosed with liver cancer last october and everyone on here is so lovely helpful and caring what you need to ask there is always someone been there before to set you on the right road and to keep your spirits up

    im so sorry you have to deal with this awful disease but you are such a wonderful person caring for your ex wife its not going to be an easy journey for either of you but always remember take every day one at a time if there is anything you need to know ask us on here as i said someone will have the answer we have all been on the same journey stay strong and positive always

    love and hugs jen xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    This site has helped me so much.  My partner has cancer, and also my ex husband has cancer.  I deal with the bad days and make the most of the good days.  I am very nervous about the future and wonder if I will be strong enough to deal with it.  This is an awful disease, but it helps to stay positive, to laugh and smile when you are happy and cry when you feel sad, and most importantly, I have found, ask for help when you need it.  My thoughts are with you both.

    Sheena

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi there, wanted to send you a pm but for some reason this site wont let me do it aarrgghh.....!! :-)

    Was nice to talk with you in chat, I cant believe how quickly this has all come about for you. You must be feeling numb.

    My partner passed away a year ago to bowel and liver cancer and I cared for him alone during his illness, he didnt want to go into a hospice so I respected his wishes and kept him at home, Im glad I did although it was very exhausting and harrowing at times.

    You have a tough time ahead of you, but rest assured we are all here to give you help and support, even if you just want to let off steam, have a rant, we are here for you.

    Anytime you need a chat, pm me anytime, I am only too glad to be of help to you, I know that caring for someone with cancer alone is a very dark and lonely place to be.

    Take care, Julie x