Operation over, but breathing problems remain

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G is still poorly, even though the operation was a sucess, and he is home again. His breathing is as bad as ever, he seems to be losing the will to fight anymore. Yesterday, our 43rd wedding anniversary, he told me he thinks this may be the end.  I seem to be in some sort of trance, its as though its all happpening to someone else.

Readingother posts this morning. I am am trying to cope with practical things and not dwell too much on the future. 
The last two years have been such a roller coaster ride, I have already done so much grieving, I feel emotionally wiped out.
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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I'm so sorry Daffie but dont give up - if the operation was successful there is still hope. My hubby is struggling for breath also, and is in pain. I know what you mean about feeling like this is happening to someone else, especially when I see friends who's lives are 'normal' like mine used to be. sending hugs

    Clare x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Sorry to hear that Claire.  Has your huband been given any medication to help his beathing?  I am just thankful that G isn't in pain.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Claire,

    My thoughts and strength are with you at this trying time. But as you say if the op was a success.

    Things might start to improve and his breathing get

    better. So dont give up yet. You never know.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    My thoughts are with you too.

    Take Care Love Julie X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Keep holding on Daffie, keep going and big hugs and strength to you from sunny Essex.

    Best Wishes,

    Hope.