10 yr marriage break up, Hysterectomy,Breast cancer with full mastectomy and reconstruction. relationship breakup,7 months of chemo ,single parent 2 children, Back to work they stopped paying me, Shingles,joint pains,osteoperosis,MRSA, bowel problems, colonoscopy,nipple reconstruction,MRSA again. Im at the end of my tether crying all the time. Bad dreams that i cant remember, broken sleep, legs moving all the time im sat quiet. Crying, Dont want to speak to any of my friends. What is wrong am i a fraud or just a wimp.
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Thankyou for all your answers to my blog. My GP wants me to go and chat to someone.....i feel as though he thinks im mad. Im not mad. I think im traumatised after everything. Thanks again everyone Love Cheryl
You are cetainly not a wimp or a fraud my love. You need to talk to someone especially your mates, don't bottle things up, I did that and nearly exploded. Mates sometimes need to be told what you are feeling girl, how else are they supposed to know......................Love Carol x Have just read your profile and it isn't easy just picking up after treatment ( I finished mine January of this year and am having physio for joint and muscle pain)
Cheryl, I'm sure your doc doesn't think you are mad. Traumatised is the right word for what you are going through.. Hope it goes well for you, Christine xx
you are no wimp you are WONDER WOMAN , you have more than your share of stress and anxiety.
maybe your doc wants to offer you councilling ,or a mild antidepressant to help you thru .
what ever he offers , try it as it could help you through . also you will find a lot of support on here from those who understand, bye for now love carol xx
Cheryl, you sound like a very brave lady to me, who happens to be suffering from stress and anxiety..and no wonder!!!!
You need time to recover and some good friends who will listen to you..be gentle on yourself Cheryl and take each day slowly...and keep talking here because you will find some good friends who will understand what you have been through and what you are still going through.
