bit scared

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FormerMember

11 Jul 2010

Hmm bit scared no I am not a bit scared am terrified to be told that when dad goes he will probably just drop down is a bit hard to get my head round .

Dads tumour grows round the supreiour vena cava (sp) so eventually will cut off the blood suply to the brain

Then on the other hand I kinda think that maybe that will be the better way for him to go instead of being in pain etc ?

My head is all over the place but then i know that my feelings in all of this are really unimportant

I really hate this thing as i am sure we all do

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FormerMember over 15 years ago

Oh bobs

I'm so sorry to read this. It must be very scary for you and my heart goes out to you. *hugs*

Lots of love

Marjorie x x x x x
FormerMember over 15 years ago

Sorry you're feeling so scared but I'm not surprised, given the circumstances, and your feelings are very important in all of this! Love to you, your dad and the family. Caroline XX
FormerMember over 15 years ago

Hi Bobs,

You see your feelings are not unimportant, they are

very important not just for yourself but for your Dad and the rest of the Family. You have got to be there for them to help,Care and Understand.So that they know you are important and want to be there for them if anything Happens. All the best and Good Luck.

Take care and be safe. Sarsfield.
FormerMember over 15 years ago

thankseveryone

today dads face is very swollen to the point that a frail thin man now has double chins that wobble

of course he needs to see a doctor but he wont

he has a scan tomorrow and i did hope to arrange for someone to accidently see him whilst he was waiting but no go the lung nurse just said that its his choice not to go :(

so my hope now is that they will see on scan what the tumour is upto and help him sooner wondering if he needs the stent in now ??
FormerMember over 15 years ago

(((((((((((((big hugs hun)))))))))))))

Caroline XX