I really need someone to support me!!

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FormerMember

13 Jul 2010

Hi,

Iam 21 years old and my mum got digonised with Lukema 2 years ago. At the time she got digonised my nan (my mums,mum) died of lung cancer. It was such a hard time in my life. Mum has a bone maror transplant and it didnt work so she had to have a top up. Now 2 years on she is still fiting that CMV virus! she got told about 1 month ago there is a infection in the brain, we had to go through so much. it kills me seeing the people i love so upset and in so much pain! I just dont know what too do any more? my mum now has lost all feeling in her legs and arm, she cant do anything for herself.we are waiting for the doctors to have a solution now! I have had such a hard 2 years,lost my nan had to deal with all this, lost my job about 3 months ago, all my friends just stopped talking too me. Please can some one tell me things will get better for me? Because at the moment i feel lost! I miss having a mum and a dad. It causes me so much pain seeing my dad upset and i try and be brave too be stong for him but its just so hard. Seeing your dad cry!!!

Does anyone know how i feel??

FormerMember over 14 years ago

just want to send huge hugs hunni
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

bless you sweetie it must all be so hard for you just now. I cannot say it will get any better but you will be able to understand / come to terms with what is happenig, if you can understand that. Yes it is so hard watching the people you love so very much hurting like they do. I was so angry and still am about the whole thing being out of my control the not knowing the if ,buts, when and whys. with both my son and sister i felt so helpless, everything was so strange the drugs, ctand mri scans as well as the x-rays,blood tests bone marrows is was a nightmare but you cope you have to and we are here for you to so any time you need a chat just shout and i,ll be here for you.

Hugs lov Lyn xxxx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

I can't begin to know how you must be feeling, but understand how hard all this must be for you. All I can do is send you massive ((((((((((hugs)))))))). xxx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

You poor sweetheart

My heart goes out to you and your Mum. I can't promise you things will get better even though I wish I could wave a magic wand and make it so.

I hope you and your Dad can support each other through this difficult time.

Lots of love and *hugs*

Marjorie x x x x x x
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Beckie,

You are going through the roughist time in your Life.

But you have to be strong for your Dads sake and For your Mum it wont be easy it will take a very special person to have to deal with all this trauma.

But you know you can and will. Because your Mum and Dad needs you and you will always be there for them.You are that special Person.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx
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