have no idea what i am doing

Ambrosia,

How difficult for your friend...seems strange that there is no help for them with pads etc.

I have nothing constructive to offer but wanted to wish you all the best and say how lucky your friend is to have you.

Debs xx

Actually, it might seem a bit out there, but if you can't find specific pads - what about the the large square ones you can buy for toddlers to lay on beds at night in case of accidents.  They also do them for puppies.  They are just large plastic backed, slightly padded and absorbant and would easily fit over a pillow?

Just a thought.

Debs xx

Hi There

You can buy disposable waterproof mats that are designed to be used in children's beds for bed wetting/potty training.  

They come in different sizes.  The ones I have seen are about the size of a pillow case.  I imagine they would be in most supermarkets with the nappies.

The material is quite soft, so not uncomfortable next to the skin.  

As supermarkets sell them, it may be worth looking at a supermarket that offers home delivery.

I realise this isn't exactly what you were looking for as your friend will have to buy them.  But I thought it may help until there is a better solution.

Jo

Debs

Great mind think alike!!

Jo

yeah and as my old Mum used to say "fools seldom differ" lol.....but I say we go on the "great minds" bit instead ;)