2 weeks after first cycle of FEC

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Hi all, well after feeling so scared leading up to my first cycle of FEC I haven't done too bad. Apart from the first few days of feeling tired, sick, constipated and suffering from lots of acid indigestion i haven't had to many side affects. Had to have movicol and lactulose for the constipation and zantac for the acid which has helped a lot. Last Thursday I phoned my chemo nurse and explained that I was having pains in my chest and felt that anything I ate and drank was hitting my chest like a brick , she advised me to go to A&E. 3 hours later, an ECG and explaining to two doctors how I felt came away with the knowledge that it was caused by my acid indigestion, did I feel daft lol. Keep feeling that if this is all I'm going to get I am lucky. Last night my hair started to fall out and my head is very itchy. Explained to my boys what was happening and my 11 year old asked when am I going to have my wig, he is very worried about any of his friends seeing me with no hair bless him. So now wondering do I get it cut off or do I let it fall out and wait till I get bald patches?

I have been doing normal things such as a marathon 6 hour shopping trip the day after chemo. Went to watch my football team lose 1-0 to Birmingham on the Sunday. Then Saturday just gone went on my sisters hen party. I broke so many rules that night but it felt really good to get dressed up and let my hair down. I drank loads, ate from the buffet and danced till my legs ached. Still not sure about the whole eating out lark, can I or can't I? I have turned down joining work colleagues going out for a christmas meal because of this and also the fact that it is slap bang in the middle of lack of immunity week. Went to see my friend last friday who was heavily pregnant and some good news she gave birth to a perfect baby boy on Monday.

One more week to go till the next cycle but don't feel so scared about it any more. Hope that the side affects don't get any worse, but have been warned that I may feel the affects more with each one. Seeing oncologist on Wednesday to talk about how I got on with it, bless her my mom as agreed to come with me so that hubby doesn't have to take any more time off. Hopefully next week is as good as the last two.

Love and Hugs Amanda xx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Amanda,

    My son's friends (8 yr olds) thought I was the coolest mum because I wore a "pirate" bandana!

    It sounds like you've had a good couple of weeks after your first chemo, except the trip to A&E obviously!

    A little bit of partying is good for the soul ;-)

    Bad Fairy x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Amanda - just do exactly what you want, there are no rules, and if there are some are meant to be broken!

    I had 6 cycles of FEC and refused to cancel my holiday - which was a weeks music festival in Switzerland, I refused to cut my hair short until i absolutely had to.  You will know what you feel able to do and keep doing it.

    My hair started to come on on the Wednesday, gave in and had it cut short (as per my photo) on the Friday and shaved it by the Monday. i was surprised how quickly it came out and I couldn't cope with it being patchy bald.  It was surprisingly liberating to shave my head, but you will know deep down what is right for you.

    Good luck with it all, this is the right place for any support you need x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi amanda - you sound as if you are doing really well - i too had my first lot of chemo two weeks ago - 2nd dec - i haven't started to loose any hair yet but have made an apppointment to go and see about a wig on wednesday - so looking forward to that -keep thinking that maybe it wont fall out afterall - wishful thinking maybe - anyway - i have been a bit like you really with the side affects - just felt really wiped out the first week but have been ok most of the time - like you i have a young one who is twleve but i think she is looking forward to my hair falling out because she will be able to help with the scarfes and wigs lol - hope that the rest of your treatments go well - will have to keep an eye out for each others bloggs - take care - love karen -xoxo

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hiya have been reading your comments iam going to start my treatment next week am having acombination of herceptin an three chemos a think find out exactly as am going on a trial i am really worried but reading your comments maybe it wont be too bad hope u all feel better best of luck to u all