Help Please

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My dad has stage 4 bowel cancer, mets in liver and lungs.

His chemo has failed, he has a stoma, and now he just finished 5 days intense radiotherapy.

I cant bear to think of losing my dad, who is 72, but i fear the worst is nearer than ever.

he has bravely fought his fight but i feel he is giving up due to all the set backs he has had.

please somebody help me.

x

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi,

    Have just read your blogg, I am so sorry to hear about your dad, am not sure if I can help but if you go on chat , there are lots of people going through what you are, and I think they could help you , they are really caring and have lots of advice, give it a go Iam sure it will help to talk.

    Love Pam x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    What can I say, you sound at your wits end. My my mum has bowel cancer with lung, liver and lymph node involvement. She was first diagnosed about 8 ish years ago it has been such a long battle. He will be rough after radio (never an option for mum) is he at home or in hospital? Mums treatment ended 22 months ago and she has had some quality time with her family ever since. Just be there for him take him treats and treat him like a king. Let him know how much you love him. This site is fantastic and works best when specific questions are asked. Keep posting and I wish you all the best with your journey.

    Diane

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Matt,

    My thoughts are with you your Dad and your Family. You have to be strong for yourself and your Dad. He needs you now more than ever, Be there for him talk to him hold his hand remember all the good times you both had together.

    I know it wont be easy.

    Take care and be safe Sarsfield.