im just one big epic fail right now

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FormerMember

27 Nov 2012

the point of me moving in with my mum was so i could support her,emotionally,physically and financially.

im an emotional wreck,mostly in serious denial that anythings wrong, havent been paid 6 of my pays since ive been here so mums supporting me and the mortgage. and physically unable to do most the stuff required around renovating the flat as not knowledgible or able to do whats required.

am falling apart and feel so damned useless.

FormerMember over 12 years ago

urgh,ignore me.having a bad day.
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FormerMember over 12 years ago

Hi Bubalugs,

I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through, it sounds as though you're finding it difficult to cope with everything at the moment.

It must be a huge comfort to your mum to have you there with her, but you don't have to go through this alone. I think you might find it really helpful to give our supportline (number below this post) a call and find out what support is available for you both. Our team of experts will be able to give you information on the financial, practical and emotional impact of your mum's cancer as well as let you know what help you are entitled to as her carer.

The number's free to call and open weekdays from 9am-8pm. I hope this helps,

Laura
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FormerMember over 12 years ago

thanks for your comment, i reached crisis point last night and am alot calmer today but am looking into going to a respite facility for a few days.
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