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Hello - 71 and facing this. I am a widow living on my own. 

seems that I am not the only one whose polyp turned out to be cancerous. I had hysteroscopy in mid December and then was called in for MRI on 30th December. I was called on Monday to come in today to meet with consultant. I pretty much expected that it would be bad news.

was told that it has spread to the mouth of the womb and is considered Stage 3. My bowels area okay. Now that the diagnosis has been given I am to see the Oncology department at large university hospital in nearby city. They do all the radiotherapy for our NHS trust. Apparently they will discuss whether I will have a hysterectomy on its own, radiotherapy on its own or both.

Having had a lot of anxiety at least I now know,. Also, analysis showed that I had the genetic markers. Not surprised as my Mum died 20 years ago from same. She didn’t seek treatment due to her fear of being examined until the point came where it had spread far and wide. Her death meant that when I noticed a little blood I contacted my GP right away. 

  • Hallo Muse, it’s good to meet you and to hear a bit more about your story. Thanks for telling us your news - were you told what grade it seems to be? I hope your next appointment comes through soon so that you can find out what the plan is. 

  • No grade was mentioned just the Stage 3. Will keep in mind when I meet with Oncologist 

  • Hallo again Muse, 
    Here’s a Macmillan link about staging and grading which you may find helpful. 
    https://www.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-information-and-support/womb-cancer/womb-cancer-stages

  • Hi  . Welcome to the group. It's amazing how many times I read polyps very rarely indicate cancer before my diagnosis. But looking back now, I probably have to thank my little flag. It's a lot to deal with living on your own, but know you can always hop on here - you are in good company. I hope you have other support close at hand. Good luck with the meeting with your oncologist and make sure you right a list of questions before you go. 

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    Hi Muse,

    Welcome to the group, I'm sure you would have preferred not to join but I think that goes for all of us. I know you live on your own but you're not on your own here. There are lots of lovely ladies here to support you, we all know how you feel and there's always someone around to chat to. If you click on our usernames you can read our profiles and the treatment we have had or are having. I hope you get a treatment plan soon,

    A x

  • Thank you will ask about on Monday 

  • My appointment with the Gynaecology Oncologist is Monday morning so hopefully will get treatment options then 

  • Hi received my grade today. It’s Grade 1 but Stage 3a as appears to have spread to cervix.

  • Hi Muse, good news that it’s a predicted grade 1! 

  • Yes though surely not so great that there’s been sneaky spreading. Just hoping that it’s remained contained and a hysterectomy is possible.