Hi all
I think this is my 2nd post but here goes but let’s start by saying I’m disabled and on a lot of medication some of which include emotional meds …. So I’m normally happy and laughing at everything which isn’t helpful we also are raising between us from previous years autistic (adult) children
my partner was diagnosed tnbc September 24 had a lumpectomy and centennial lymph node removed before Christmas 24 then went through chemotherapy (EC and another that I can’t remember the name of) which ended in July 25
but she was still getting pain and went through all the scans and tests again on the pet scan it highlighted a lymph node and something abnormal in the same breast so was booked in for biopsies…. Well 13 attempts and all they could tell us was it’s abnormal but due to the pain she is getting and to get the results of the biopsy she saw 2 other “doctors’ on 2 different occasions one said it could be necrotic tissue and scar tissue and the other one said it’s all clear and your cancer free
then in the early part of the month she gets an appointment through to see her original consultant/surgeon who is absolutely fuming that the more was not referred back to her and stated that she’s going to have some serious words then told us (I use us because she will always have me at her side) that the probability of it being cancer is 4 out of 5 and has booked her in for the first of April to have it removed again
You can see why we’re stuck in a loop
I know that I’m only her partner and it’s not me going through it but the dreaded C word has now taken the person I used to be which is probably a good thing for my partner in someways but I feel that my constant happy go lucky helped her last time which was literally only 6 months ago
I don’t know what this post is even supposed to be about anymore
