Hi have just had the date of my op confirmed for 5 th of October,was just wondering if anyone has recommendations for underwear/pads for after?.Have looked online but as with everything these days there's a lot of choice and you never know if you can trust some of the reviews.
Hello Atty67
Here's a link to the same type of question asked last month - with plenty of answers
I wish you well with your operation.
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Hi atty This has been a post before but I’ll reply so you don’t have to trawl through. I would wait until after TWOC and see how you go. Dont go mad and buy loads of different pads etc ( from experience I’m saying this ) as I was really fortunate that I was continent immediately after and never need more than a couple of shields that I wore as a precaution. If you need any advice about surgery I’m happy to help. I am post op 14 months and doing well. Any question no matter how trivial it might sound I’ll be glad to give my view. Good luck. Simon
Atty67,
I contributed to the other thread so my advice is on there.
I think it is important to have some pads ready for decatheterisation in case your hospital sends you away with just one pad and refuses a spare which I had not planned for.
I was leaking badly and the supermarket was just that bit too far but luckily had a mens toilet I could use to change and replace the pad.
It took some months to become continent for a number of reasons.
My surgery was a failure so I had to have early salvage RT but remain continent so far which is a relief as that is a risk with RT too.
Good luck.
Albert
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