Well that was a weird experience.
Husband very recently diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer. Still awaiting a PET scan for formal diagnosis of advanced nature. Sorting out support for the temporary catheter and spoke to a nurse. When I said why he had the catheter, she dipped her voice into a more gentle and soothing tone and said “I’m so sorry”. Now, I get it, and she was being excellent… but the empathy hit like a punch in the stomach. We aren’t there yet….
Hello Size4feet
The entire journey is a "rollercoaster". In 4.5 years I have met the most amazing NHS staff. I have also met the downright obnoxious and requested never to see them again!!
You will get there, once you have the diagnosis and treatment plan, life will settle down to the "new normal".
I have found out I had "friends" who were not friends (we don't do cancer! - God help you if you ever get a diagnosis) to friends and family who have stood by me and have been there when needed. I find the only people who really understand are others with a cancer diagnosis and their partners.
4.5 years down the line, 3 monthly blood tests and meetings are the new normal - holidays are a must - and enjoying life is essential.
We aren’t there yet….
You will get there - and we are all here to help you.
Best wishes - Brian.
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