What do I ask my consultant?

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Firstly, I apologise for asking something that must have been asked many times.  And secondly, I'm asking it 4 hours before a meeting I'm dreading.

I had a biopsy 3 weeks ago and today I expect to discuss the findings.

My question is simply - what do I ask the consultant today?  I woke up with ideas about life expectancy, but fully awake that seems silly.  I want to use the time well, so I'm asking for advice please.

Thank you and have a great day.

Chris M

  • Hi Chris, when I went in for the same meeting post biopsy and scans etc, my one question assuming PC was there, (which it was) was… is it treatable? Good luck

  • RLS, thank you.  That's it in a nutshell.  Once I posted and calmed down, I found some advice (ok, my wife did) and it's left me with plenty to think about.

    Notebook(s) at the ready :-)

    Thanks again.

    Chris M

  • Hello Chris

    You need to know your Gleason Score, TNM Scores and if possible a treatment plan.

    Just in case that's not enough for you here's a list:

    Questions-to-ask-your-healthcare-team.

    Good luck later.

    Best wishes - Brian.

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  • Exactly, note book at the ready, Mrs Odd Man In's ears wide open. I knew I had cancer when I received mine and still was shaking like a leaf when I was told. It sort of finalised the process thus far. Then what next and when?

    I always advise. One hurdle at a time. All the best for this morning. Let's hope it is all clear, otherwise, onward with your journey.

  • Brian - thank you very much.  Gleason was on my hastily-scribbled list.  I just added TNM.  I will let the group know what was said - probably after a drink.

    Have a great day!

    Chris M

  • KJ911, one hurdle at a time is my mantra now. On Millibob's advice I'll push for a TNM figure. I think it will be 'worse' than I first thought, but we'll see.

    Thank you for your advice and support.

    Best wishes.

    Chris M