Firstly, I apologise for asking something that must have been asked many times. And secondly, I'm asking it 4 hours before a meeting I'm dreading.
I had a biopsy 3 weeks ago and today I expect to discuss the findings.
My question is simply - what do I ask the consultant today? I woke up with ideas about life expectancy, but fully awake that seems silly. I want to use the time well, so I'm asking for advice please.
Thank you and have a great day.
Chris M
RLS, thank you. That's it in a nutshell. Once I posted and calmed down, I found some advice (ok, my wife did) and it's left me with plenty to think about.
Notebook(s) at the ready :-)
Thanks again.
Chris M
Hello Chris
You need to know your Gleason Score, TNM Scores and if possible a treatment plan.
Just in case that's not enough for you here's a list:
Questions-to-ask-your-healthcare-team.
Good luck later.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Exactly, note book at the ready, Mrs Odd Man In's ears wide open. I knew I had cancer when I received mine and still was shaking like a leaf when I was told. It sort of finalised the process thus far. Then what next and when?
I always advise. One hurdle at a time. All the best for this morning. Let's hope it is all clear, otherwise, onward with your journey.
Brian - thank you very much. Gleason was on my hastily-scribbled list. I just added TNM. I will let the group know what was said - probably after a drink.
Have a great day!
Chris M
KJ911, one hurdle at a time is my mantra now. On Millibob's advice I'll push for a TNM figure. I think it will be 'worse' than I first thought, but we'll see.
Thank you for your advice and support.
Best wishes.
Chris M
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