Hi all,
I appreciate we will have all felt anxious after diagnosis (and before) I’m just looking to put my mind at ease that it will be ok, my family don’t have positive outcomes for cancers but no one has had melanoma or anyone I know either which is making me feel alone.
Went to GP middle of June about something else and happened to mention mole. Was referred on 2 week pathway, pre op assessment diasgnosed BCC had lesion removed in n 18th August and waited 10 for results (was told max 8!) been diagnosed with melanoma and referred to Christie’s.
I don’t cope well with waiting, someone please tell me it gets easier
Hi. I also had a Wider excision on 18th August and sentinel lymph node biopsy. 2 lymphs removed. The excision site is clear + one lymph. The other lymph shows signs of micro cells. So ultrasound, CT scan and MRI
There is no easy way but the waiting time can and is an anxious experience. I'm moving on to a further scan in January with the possibility of immunotherapy. I can't fault the NHS treatment I've received, Dermotology, Plastic surgery and Oncology all brilliant and it is getting easier. Lots of support available.
I understand it feels like a lonely journey but be reassured. You're not alone.
Thanks JohnnyB I’m waiting my appointment at The Christie to book my wider excision and snl biopsy. That big scares me!
My report is unclear as one says it’s breached the epidermis and possible ulceration but the layman report says not.
Is there anything I should be asking or any advice you can give me please? I keep looking at my 2 year old and crying and thinking, what if?
Hi again. I hope you'll allow me to have a small smile to myself. Your current emotions are so much closer to my own at the point you're at now. You, young Mum, me, grandad. I hadn't had general anaesthetic for 40 years and only two small ops under local, including the first excision. I was full of trepidation about the surgery and, like you, a head full of questions. On my surgery day the surgeon and his team couldn't have been more reassuring and explained everything they needed to do and what would happen afterwards. So much so I didn't have any significant questions. Make sure you understand the surgical procedure. The SNL is a fairly lengthy procedure because the radioactive trace will indicate any possible direction of micro cells. I'm sure you can be confident that they'll take great care of you. Then of course it will be the biopsy results. They are very clever and can determine what, if any, targeted immunotherapy will be offered. All of which means that this disease is treatable. I'm reassured that with treatment and regular scans I'll be well monitored and cared for..
Best wishes
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