Anxious

Hi I really feel for you as I too suffer consent anxiety. All I can say is take each day at a time and I am sure when you read all the posts on here you will see even if it’s not the news you want, treatments are out there for everything. It’s not easy to tell yourself that but I am sure after your appointment you will feel better as speaking about your fears to a medical professional will help. It’s a continuing journey with kidney cancer, as after treatment we have regular scans, blood tests etc,  so trying to control anxiety is something with have to try and cope with. I have good days, bad days and very bad days. They found a serious heart problem on my ‘all clear’ annual scan so I have that to try and get my head around. Not had my cardio appointment yet. That’s in two weeks. I try to deep breath and look at the positives, once things are once found, whatever it is we will get treatment and monitored. I am sat cuddling my dog typing this. This helps me. 

Thanks very much cilla 

Philw, your anxiety is normal, and you are not alone. It's not easy to cope with a cancer diagnosis, especially in the first phase of total uncertainty. When I become anxious, I try to relax by walking in nature, watching favorites series, or going out to favorites restaurants with friends. Try to organize something that could help you not focus on your diagnosis for next weekend. On Monday you will know more about your prognosis; it's not a long wait. 

Thanks again 

Sending you waves of positive vibrations for Monday  Leo

Thankyou