Bittersweet Anniversay

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Sorry I haven't been on here for a while.

Had my 2 year end of treatment anniversary at the weekend and 13th wedding anniversary the day after. This year it was nice to celebrate the wedding, share a meal and be less about the 2nd anniversary of not being able to swallow. 

About 4 weeks ago I was getting a lot of neck stiffness and pain, like I'd slept awkwardly but it lasted 2 weeks. Also had the odd swallowing problem, so messaged my CNS. Then we actually went 'out out' to a 50th, room was very cosy and after 3 years of being very careful both got covid. Due to my rheumatism meds I had anti virals, which did the job. Still had to postpone my check up though. 

Check up was yesterday, went through concerns and usual thorough check. Best news is everything looking good. Put issues down to bigger mouthfuls, chatting more and thinking less about how to eat. Neck pain probably radiotherapy hang over, rheumatism and stress. Thankfully it's Easter. They're increasing appointments to 4 month gap, but as per usual call with any worries. Was also told to keep challenging taste buds after admitting to managing a curry (it stung at the time, butno blisters). 

The real bittersweet is that whilst I still seem to be evading the beast that's taken half my family found out in past 2 weeks my dad has pancreatic cancer and has been told little value of chemo, on best care support and he has about 6 months. Absolutely devastated.

  • HubGil. So sorry to hear about your  Dad yes cancer sucks. As for our side effects they can slowly creep up in the best if us. Happy 13 th wedding anniversary and well done on the other one. 
    Enjoy increasing Food repertoire and happy Easter holidays. 
    Hugs Hazel. Ps do you ever hear from Richy Dee he disappeared from the forum. 

    Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz 

    My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com  HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now  6 years  post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help

    2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers 

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  • Gill, sorry to hear about your dad.  With the progress you're making I hope and pray that those few months with you dad will enable you both to be happy and have time to make memories.

    Peter
    See my profile for more details of my convoluted journey
  • So glad you're 2 years clear! Congratulations on your wedding anniversary too. And you got through Covid! Best wishes with your Dad. 

    September 2022 aged 63 diagnosed with HPV associated SCC base of tongue T4 N2 M0. Chemo & radiotherapy for 6 weeks ending Nov 2022. Oct 2024 nearly 2 years all clear. See my profile for longer story